Potty training has proven to be one of the most difficult experiences parents face. Follow these steps for successfully potty training your child.
Step One
The first step is to look for signs to decide if your child is ready to start potty training. Remember, no matter what Grandma says, there is no perfect age to start potty training your child. Here are some signs to look for:
• Is your child interested in the potty or ask to "go potty"?
• Has your kid started asking for a diaper change when she is wet?
• Has your child started to say or imply "pee-pee" or "poo-poo" to you BEFORE she actually goes potty?
• Does your child stay dry for more than two hours at a time and has a reasonably predictable bowel movement schedule?
• Can your kid follow simple, verbal instructions?
If your child shows any of these signs, it might be a good time to try potty training.
Step Two
The second step in the potty training process requires you to make a decision: a potty seat that fits over the toilet seat, or a potty chair? It's up to you.
Some advantages of potty seat are: one less transition because your child is already sitting on the actual toilet and minimal clean up. However, the flip side is some children are afraid of the "big potty", so a potty chair may be less intimidating for them. Again, the decision is up to you and choose the one that works best for your child.
The Process
Start a potty training routine with your child. A good way to make potty training easier for your child is to put her on the toilet before bathing. Give your child a book to read and see what happens. If you are highly motivated and want to get to work, put your child on the potty every 1-2 (waking) hours for about 3-5 days. Encourage your child to let you know when she needs to use the toilet. Some parents find it helpful to offer rewards (e.g. stickers, M&M's etc.) Again, do what works best for you and your child.
Remember, each child is unique. What works for you and your child may not work for someone else. Be patient and offer encouragement and praise. Don't try to force or pressure your child to go potty, and never punish your child if she has an accident. Stick to the process and your child will soon become a professional at pooping and peeing on the potty.
